Kinky wild child, freaky party animal and an extremely incurable hopeless romantic all in one. That's me and I'm open to email pen pals, friends, a relationship and even husband number four. But I'm also looking for playmates. To me, these are quality guys, not unlikey myself, who know how to be good friends as well as good in the bedroom. I also work for an association of men involved in the gay group scene, so guys interested in wrestling, strip poker, and other activities involving other gay men are welcome to holler at me.

In addition to that, I have my own business, which lets me travel quite a bit in the U.S. In my down ttime, I like to sing, cook and write lyrics. I also write columns, articles and such. I enjoy music, television and movies and playing some sports including wrestling, soccer, tennis, field hockey, volleyball, bowling, and dodgeball and kickball with my nieces and nephews. I also spend as much time with my friends as possible.

I value the people in my life and who knows, with time, maybe you will become one of them.

Aries

A Few Extra Pounds

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Brown

African American

Widowed

No

Not Sure

Lips

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Black

Dog

Yes

Some College

Self-employed

Administrative / Management

Efficiency Consultant

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

With Pet(s)

It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes

Yes - Socially

Yes - Often

Outcast

Reserved, Shy, Flirtatious, Strange

Exercising, Sports, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Dining, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Playing Cards, Gambling, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Going To A Casino, Tv, Going To A Concert

My ideal first date would be inviting a guy to my place for a meal. We prepare it together and set it up for a candle light affair. Then we either chill on the couch or by the fireplace, with a bottle of wine, and either listen to music or watch a movie. We learn a lot about each other through conversation and let the night take us where it may.

riding in a hot air balloon. I have a fear of heights, especially on what I perceive to be unstable items. I can work on the roof of the house and fly on a plane, but scaffolds and ladders make me uncomfortable. I think that could be as close to flying as I would allow myself to get and still get an amzing view of what's around.

Friendly, A Flirt

Spiritual But Not Religious

Once A Month

Middle Of The Road

I would love to find love one more time, and with husband number four, take a prolonged Meditteranean-European tour as our honeymoon, before settling somewhere and living our lives. Eventually I would semi-retire and open up a classy, gay restaurant/nightclub. And if by chance, I outlive number four, I'm going to find three of my friends and become the Golden Guys! lol

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Raunchy

Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows, Soaps

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller, Adult

Rock, Pop, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Gospel

Auto-biography, Biography, Music

so many thing! A moonlit picnic, bubble baths, massages, mud-wrestling, skinny dipping, candlelit dinners, slow dancing, karaoke, games, strip poker and hanging with my friends, for starters.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Boldness, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

After three husbands, this is easy. He has to be romantic more than anything else. He has to be sweet. He should be intelligent becaause I have an aversion for stupidity. For anything else, he just has to be a quality guy who know how to be what he is looking for, a friend, a playmate or whatever.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed